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Morning coffee by the window at my home while watching the city awaken contemplating which worlds to create today. I'm a designer at heart. I transform empty spaces into stories and create spaces where people can feel at home, probably because I've always been curious about what makes us feel connected to the places and people around us. So, I collect moments rather than things. I'm equally passionate about thoughtful conversation and comfortable silence shared between two people. They say you can learn everything about someone by knowing what makes them laugh, what keeps them awake at night, and what they eat when no one is watching. For me absurd coincidences, questions without easy answers, and strawberries with seafood (perhaps not together), but the contrast is part of my charm. And what hidden layers make you who you are? Some of mine are waiting to be discovered by you beyond these words
Female (35) Kansas City, Missouri
I’m an independent and caring woman who enjoys traveling, learning new things, and helping people feel their best. I’m divorced with no kids and I run my own skincare business in San Francisco. I value honesty, kindness and meaningful connections, and I’m hoping to meet someone who shares the same values
Female (37) Kansas City, Missouri
Beatrice, 30 years of age , single and looking for someone serious to get to know better. Feel free to say Hi and I'll be glade to respond to you and see what happens. I'm not a Premium member, so you can just hit me up to talk more possibly on phone , if you think I'm your type of woman
Female (37) Kansas City, Missouri
I am a charming, mysterious, seductive, charismatic woman. I am always positive. I can get through the most turbulent times of my life in a good mood. I am used to trusting my heart, and I am able to overcome any difficulties in life and, having achieved my goal, move even further.
Female (52) Kansas City, Missouri
Hello! :) Kinker than most and love to experiment! Fully submissive at heart. Really would like to find a good fwb. Ask me anything!
Female (24) Kansas City, Missouri
I am submissive, I can not dom for you. outside of sex I am into nerdy shit, primarily PC gamer. Looking to chat with people and have some fun! The more unique as a person you are, the more likely I am to talk to you.
Female (38) Kansas City, Missouri
I don't want to seem too self-confident, but I think, I am a woman you need. I am beautiful, intelligent, educated, sporty, open-minded and have a good sense of humor. I have a gentle character and a kind heart. I am looking for a man, husband, future father of my ***, and a passionate lover. I don't pay much attention to physical beauty as it is not very important. I think an inner beauty is much more important and valuable. I have an intention to build a happy family and have a respectful and honest relationship. A strong relationship is like a delicate flower, it must be nurtured and cared for. It may grow thorns and hurt from time to time, but with communication, respect, and compromise we can grow it into something beautiful.
Female (53) Kansas City, Missouri
My name is Mary and I’m here to find something real, a deep, meaningful connection with someone who’s also looking for love that lasts. Maybe you’re that someone, reading this right now. I would describe myself as kind, attentive, loving, and purposeful. I’ve taken time to grow, reflect, and truly understand what I want in life and that’s a partner to build a strong, supportive, and joyful future with. I believe love knows no boundaries, not of age or distance. What matters is two hearts willing to walk through life side by side, with trust, care, and shared values. Tst me nain wan hate tree sero nain hate cevin faif forh I’m looking for a man who’s ready to create a family, face life’s ups and downs together, and never stop growing as a couple. In return, I bring warmth, sincerity, support, and a deep commitment to building something beautiful, day by day, moment by moment.
Female (32) Kansas City, Missouri
I like my rope tight, my rules clear, and my brats just unruly enough to earn what’s coming. Ball gags to muffle that clever mouth, spankings to remind you who’s in charge, and just enough punishment to keep you deliciously on edge.
Female (34) Kansas City, Missouri
Hello! PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING! I am here to find a wonderful little bisexual play toy. I would love if you were a bit on the submissive side, but switch males are fine! Looking to explore with a man who swings both ways, and explore realms of pleasure together. I require discretion, and let’s see if we match! I am not looking for hookups with straight men!
Female (30) Kansas City, Missouri
Welcome to my world I am the dangerous beauty you can’t resist Eyes that enchant Thoughts that corrupt Sweet poison dripping between your lips Sweet as sin Dangerous as desire One taste… you’ll be lost in both worlds Think you can handle both sides of me?? I don’t follow the rules… I rewrite them!
Female (35) Kansas City, Missouri
love rough sex with a dominant masculine male. choking, slapping, spanking, and commands with a slight loving undertone set me off. I am a good little submissive that loves to please
Female (39) Kansas City, Missouri
Looking for friends to potentially have fun with maybe more. I'm a certified silly goose. I'm very loving, creative, and silly. I make art, and love playing video games. I'm still new to the bdsm community if anyone wants to try new things with me. I'm pretty open to trying things. I may be hesitant at first but I'm very curious. I'm down for lot of things.
Female (22) Kansas City, Missouri
Tall, muscular, chubby, short hair, freckles, glasses, nose piercings, tats with more on the way (mainstream passable). Face pics available. Very kink ++ Moderate lefty (no pro-MAGA and yes, it matters) 420 friendly, occasional adult beverage consumer Professional, educated, ENTP, high EQ, ADHD Into wearing lace, leather, stockings, high heels/boots, corsets, sexy panties/lingerie Not a sadist or masochist I love fun, playful couples, cute femmes/females, and respectful, mature men. Looking to build something solid based on similar interests in and outside the bedroom, ideally with a primary long-term partner (or couple) while having the option to play with others, either solo or as a couple/throuple. Open to poly, ENM/CNM. ONS/short-term must typically involve a kink or fetish I haven't yet experienced. Must have physical attraction, sexual chemistry, shared desires, good communication. The best experiences involve mutual trust and mental connection, so preference is given to ongoing play partners. I'm into a wide variety of things including kissing, oil massage, voyeurism, roleplay, mutual masturbation, cuddling, sensual intimacy, grinding/frottage, pegging, Alpha+beta and dual Domming, MFF, MMF, FF+, group play, toys, praise, WAM/sploshing, porn, erotica, face-sitting, oral, body/leg/foot worship, gooning, teasing, edging, breath play, pet names, sensation play, sexual aggression, wrestle play, squirting, D/s, CNC, stranger fantasies, sex clubs, play parties, adult theatres Reserved for select trusted play partners: - Unprotected intercourse, creampies, breeding kinks - CNC, stranger fantasy play - Use of restraints/gags/blindfolds on me - Any activities reasonably expected to cause bruising or lasting marks on my skin As Domina, I prefer subs 28-48 years old, male or femme/female, ready to experience orgasm control, JOI, caging, bondage, discipline, blindfolds, cuckolding, age play, strap sucking/gag reflex training, ***d begging, panties, lingerie, dress up, limited degregation/***, watersports, and other kinks/fetishes. You won't know unless you ask...😉 - No online-only chat/video buddies. - No play if your partner isn't fully aware and agrees. - No tobacco smokers/chewers unless you are able to fully pause before and during play (vaping/zyns ok). - No ***, diaper play, ***, ***s. - No degrading or humiliating me; I do enjoy slut, whore, and similar name-calling in the right moments. - No serious *** (giving or receiving) but light impact play can be pleasurable. Unique kinks/fetishes are a plus but not required. 💜 If anything you've read sparks your interest, hit me up and let's compare notes! **Regular testing expected with the full understanding that a clear STI screen does not provide any guarantees.**
Female (45) Kansas City, Missouri
I'm looking for a dom who can help me explore🤭 If I can't see your face, I can't see your potential. I value genuine conversation in addition to mutual attraction. Don't bother if you cannot converse. I am a very spiritual being🍃 🍄
Female (27) Kansas City, Missouri
Heya! I'm an early-30's female with tattoo's. I like to read, and I love a good cup of coffee. I've read all the smut Kindle has to offer so, I'm interested in some real-life smut experience. I'm a total brat, interested in exploring a sub/dom dynamic.
Female (32) Kansas City, Missouri
I am an business/career woman who enjoys cooking, traveling, art, adventures, etc... I am looking for an adventurous woman who likes to have fun, is local, and enjoys kinky fun.
Female (43) Kansas City, Missouri
really no limits you provide for me I provide for you my safe words pineapple I especially like being stretched use me *** me Daddy anything you not feel that *** I'm feeling now party friendly right now but not for long
Female (39) Kansas City, Missouri
Spoiled princess by day ❤️slut by night Beat me like you hate me ❤️‍🔥 kiss me like your favorite candy lives in the back of my throat 🍬 leave your marks so I feel you for days and days ⛓️‍💥 shy submissive needy slut bunny looking for a Daddy happiest serving my Sir
Female (45) Kansas City, Missouri
I am horrible at knowing what to type on here so I’ll give it my best… like what you see send a message , if you don’t, move on and good luck…. I am a sub/brat I am still learning about the life style. I am looking for friends and mentor male . i am open to chat but if you start off with anything sexual I will not respond. I don’t do pick up lines either lol. if you are more then an hour away don’t even bother messaging lol you will have no chance. if you are not will to communicate then just move on I don’t have time for games. I know this may sound unappealing to some but at this point in my journey in the lifestyle I am very picky. I am not asking for a million text a day when we are starting out but ghosting for two days yeah I’ll stop responding.
Female (33) Kansas City, Missouri
I love to get spoiled & pampered 🥰 I’m not giving my time & energy to anyone who’s not spending😌 I’m a pretty girl I get what I want 😚
Female (23) Kansas City, Missouri
i’m 5’7. i smoke wayyyy too much weed. idrk what im doing on here but im open to anything (i do sell spicy content for my freaks)
Female (24) Kansas City, Missouri
i don’t give out *** so don’t ask **i DO NOT do meet ups** if you can’t see all my pics on the app, try the website! I DONT SEND PICS/NO VC (due to my job/personal reasons) please for the love of god, DONT SEND ME DICK PICS. ITS AN IMMEDIATE BLOCK!! hi i’m ava! she/her 1000% submissive bimbo that has an eagerness to please & service just a pan baby sub/brat/cunt/babygirl etc im just a 5’0 (152.4 cm) curvy (plus sized) bratty slut here to have fun & talk with like minded people ask for my kink list! message me & tell me your fave color just so i know you made it this far
Female (27) Kansas City, Missouri
I really wanna meet woman! I miss worshipping the female body. I’m known to try anything once and definitely twice just to make sure😘 Clearly, I find *** pleasurable or I wouldn’t be covered in tattoos.
Female (25) Kansas City, Missouri

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I am a charming, mysterious, seductive, charismatic woman. I am always positive. I can get through the most turbulent times of my life in a good mood. I am used to trusting my heart, and I am able to overcome any difficulties in life and, having achieved my goal, move even further.
Female (52) Kansas City, Missouri
I like my rope tight, my rules clear, and my brats just unruly enough to earn what’s coming. Ball gags to muffle that clever mouth, spankings to remind you who’s in charge, and just enough punishment to keep you deliciously on edge.
Female (34) Kansas City, Missouri
I don't want to seem too self-confident, but I think, I am a woman you need. I am beautiful, intelligent, educated, sporty, open-minded and have a good sense of humor. I have a gentle character and a kind heart. I am looking for a man, husband, future father of my ***, and a passionate lover. I don't pay much attention to physical beauty as it is not very important. I think an inner beauty is much more important and valuable. I have an intention to build a happy family and have a respectful and honest relationship. A strong relationship is like a delicate flower, it must be nurtured and cared for. It may grow thorns and hurt from time to time, but with communication, respect, and compromise we can grow it into something beautiful.
Female (53) Kansas City, Missouri
I’m an independent and caring woman who enjoys traveling, learning new things, and helping people feel their best. I’m divorced with no kids and I run my own skincare business in San Francisco. I value honesty, kindness and meaningful connections, and I’m hoping to meet someone who shares the same values
Female (37) Kansas City, Missouri
My name is Mary and I’m here to find something real, a deep, meaningful connection with someone who’s also looking for love that lasts. Maybe you’re that someone, reading this right now. I would describe myself as kind, attentive, loving, and purposeful. I’ve taken time to grow, reflect, and truly understand what I want in life and that’s a partner to build a strong, supportive, and joyful future with. I believe love knows no boundaries, not of age or distance. What matters is two hearts willing to walk through life side by side, with trust, care, and shared values. Tst me nain wan hate tree sero nain hate cevin faif forh I’m looking for a man who’s ready to create a family, face life’s ups and downs together, and never stop growing as a couple. In return, I bring warmth, sincerity, support, and a deep commitment to building something beautiful, day by day, moment by moment.
Female (32) Kansas City, Missouri
Hello! PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING! I am here to find a wonderful little bisexual play toy. I would love if you were a bit on the submissive side, but switch males are fine! Looking to explore with a man who swings both ways, and explore realms of pleasure together. I require discretion, and let’s see if we match! I am not looking for hookups with straight men!
Female (30) Kansas City, Missouri
Beatrice, 30 years of age , single and looking for someone serious to get to know better. Feel free to say Hi and I'll be glade to respond to you and see what happens. I'm not a Premium member, so you can just hit me up to talk more possibly on phone , if you think I'm your type of woman
Female (37) Kansas City, Missouri
Morning coffee by the window at my home while watching the city awaken contemplating which worlds to create today. I'm a designer at heart. I transform empty spaces into stories and create spaces where people can feel at home, probably because I've always been curious about what makes us feel connected to the places and people around us. So, I collect moments rather than things. I'm equally passionate about thoughtful conversation and comfortable silence shared between two people. They say you can learn everything about someone by knowing what makes them laugh, what keeps them awake at night, and what they eat when no one is watching. For me absurd coincidences, questions without easy answers, and strawberries with seafood (perhaps not together), but the contrast is part of my charm. And what hidden layers make you who you are? Some of mine are waiting to be discovered by you beyond these words
Female (35) Kansas City, Missouri
Hello! :) Kinker than most and love to experiment! Fully submissive at heart. Really would like to find a good fwb. Ask me anything!
Female (24) Kansas City, Missouri
I am submissive, I can not dom for you. outside of sex I am into nerdy shit, primarily PC gamer. Looking to chat with people and have some fun! The more unique as a person you are, the more likely I am to talk to you.
Female (38) Kansas City, Missouri
Plus size 24 yrs old, not very experienced but looking for a dominant master/ daddy to use me
Female (24) Kansas City, Missouri
really no limits you provide for me I provide for you my safe words pineapple I especially like being stretched use me *** me Daddy anything you not feel that *** I'm feeling now party friendly right now but not for long
Female (39) Kansas City, Missouri
Heya! I'm an early-30's female with tattoo's. I like to read, and I love a good cup of coffee. I've read all the smut Kindle has to offer so, I'm interested in some real-life smut experience. I'm a total brat, interested in exploring a sub/dom dynamic.
Female (32) Kansas City, Missouri
I am an business/career woman who enjoys cooking, traveling, art, adventures, etc... I am looking for an adventurous woman who likes to have fun, is local, and enjoys kinky fun.
Female (43) Kansas City, Missouri
I thought i was asexual for most of my adult life. then i accidentally discovered i was a sub 2 years ago during a brief relationship. something was awakened in me that i didn't know existed, and it's a high I've been chasing ever since
Female (47) Kansas City, Missouri
i’m 5’7. i smoke wayyyy too much weed. idrk what im doing on here but im open to anything (i do sell spicy content for my freaks)
Female (24) Kansas City, Missouri
I'm looking for a dom who can help me explore🤭 If I can't see your face, I can't see your potential. I value genuine conversation in addition to mutual attraction. Don't bother if you cannot converse. I am a very spiritual being🍃 🍄
Female (27) Kansas City, Missouri
Femme Domme | Explorer | Intentional Sadist I’m a femme domme who loves the art of kink—connection, trust, and intention matter to me just as much as impact. I enjoy giving *** with purpose, guiding partners into deep, floaty subspace, and holding them there with attentive, grounding aftercare. I’m drawn to dynamics built on communication, consent, and curiosity. I enjoy exploring power exchange, sensation, control, and the psychological side of kink just as much as the physical. I take pride in reading bodies, energy, and breath—knowing when to push, when to pause, and when to soften. I’m playful, confident, and nurturing in my dominance. *** can be a love language. Aftercare is non-negotiable. Here to explore, learn, and create intentional experiences—no rush, no ego, just good energy and mutual respect.
Female (52) Kansas City, Missouri
friendships/relationships with Women only ********************************************** Watching a movie, both of us cuddled on the couch is cute yeah, but watching a movie, with you sitting on the floor, at my feet and your head laying on my lap, while I hold the leash attached to your collar? Now that's beyond beautiful, very satisfying and pleasing. 🖤😈
Female (57) Kansas City, Missouri
Hey ladies it’s Nikki and Kp! We’re looking for some girls who are trying to have fun; however also Why struggle in this world when we can make some real *** together? 3 brains is better than 1 or even 2 you know😉 If interested message us! We’re a laid back couple, 4;20 friendly, we like to chill and have fun😏We’re also down to chill and meet new people too 😌. I also do hair and lashes, I’m licensed; trying to build my clientele so get at me for that too🙃.
Female (23) Kansas City, Missouri
love rough sex with a dominant masculine male. choking, slapping, spanking, and commands with a slight loving undertone set me off. I am a good little submissive that loves to please
Female (39) Kansas City, Missouri
I mostly identify as a brat. I typically lean toward being more submissive than dom but with the right person I can be a switch. So far I know that I enjoy neck kisses, dirty talk, being spanked, tied up & teased/***d, wrestling, massages, sensual sex, and role play. I’m open to new experiences but also not open to trying any and everything. I like to please and can typically try things my partner enjoys as long as I’m okay with it & there’s no chance of potential harm.
Female (34) Kansas City, Missouri
I am a bigger woman, on a weight-loss journey, won't happen over night but I'm trying. I like to think of myself as very chill/down to earth/go with the flow. I like adventure but I'm also one to enjoy cuddling in bed watching movies/shows all day too. Will binge watch shows with you! 100% down for more gaming friends, I play mostly on Xbox but some on Pc. I'm semi new to the KCMO area. I'm demisexual, bisexual (very recent coming out), polyam, and kink friendly. Currently looking for a girlfriend, but not opposed to a couple either. I would definitely like to find a soft yet passionate love. ♋ cancer Celebrity crush I would take every opportunity with - Lana Parrilla. I've got undiagnosed BPD. The more communication the better. But don't be controlling about it. Intimacy is a touchy thing for me, from past experiences. I crave it but... For those in the BDSM lifestyle/community I'm a submissive Little, with bratty tendencies (can be switchy at times). I currently have a Mommy Domme of 2 years. I'm into dominant or at least switch leaning dominant women. I kind of have a type when it comes to the women I'm attracted to, but at the same time I'm open. Very much into darker hair (brown/black). I'm very drawn by eyes and smiles, and have a voice kink so if I really like your voice, you'll know If you don't have patience with any of the above it just won't work.
Female (32) Kansas City, Missouri
I am looking for a relationship, I’m not interested in one night stands or hook ups. I’m not ok with being on camera. I am a little overweight right now and a more conservative person. I will not be ok showing my face over photo or anything like that. I’m 5’1, 210 lbs, DDD breast (yes there natural and yes they hurt my back lol), blond hair. Ok dating ages 24-35 ish I’m pretty reserved in large groups but more open one on one. I’m 100% a sub and definitely a brat. I’m wanting to try everything, role play, restraint, and impact play are high on my list of things I enjoy. I prefer men who are assertive and dominate.
Female (25) Kansas City, Missouri

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